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Female Firebrands

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Save yourself years of heartache and frustration by learning from mission driven women about how they’ve overcome obstacles at work.

Join Mikaela Kiner as she talks with professional women and their advocates. They’ll explore timely topics like privilege, #momtoo (all things pregnancy and parenting at work), #metoo, and female rivalry. Professional women share their stories including challenges and tips and tools on how to work through them and stay resilient. Advocates of different genders offer techniques to increase inclusion, and stand up for yourself and others in Hot Moments.

Mikaela Kiner Speaking

Mikaela Kiner is the author of Female Firebrands: Stories and Techniques to Ignite Change, Take Control, and Succeed in the Workplace. She’s also the Founder and CEO of Reverb, a Seattle based HR consulting firm. Mikaela lives with her family in Seattle.

Listen to Season 1, Episodes 1-10 on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Google Play or Spotify

Female Firebrand Season 2 is sponsored in part by the Washington Technology Industry Association

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SEASON 3, EPISODE #30

HELPING UNDERESTIMATED FOUNDERS
TELL THEIR STORIES

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Lindsay Dayton LaShell is a marketing activist and the CEO of Diamond + Branch, a marketing

consultancy that serves womxn, queer, and BIPOC entrepreneurs and nonprofits. She helps these organizations achieve financial sustainability and growth through marketing that is both empathetic and efficient. Lindsay and I talk about how marketing can help underestimated founders acquire clients and avoid failure, why she shaved her head in a rebellious act of feminism and ways to use your field to give to others.

For all things, Female Firebrands, visit the website here – where you can buy the book or download free checklists to put what you learned into action.

Share your success stories and questions about being a woman in the workplace in our Google Form. Mikaela may use your stories or answer your questions in the final episode of this season!

Highlights:

  • What does it mean to be a marketing activist?
  • Lindsay analogizes her marketing strategy to Blue Apron… What does this mean?
  • How does Lindsay’s work serve underestimated groups?
  • What pushed Lindsay to shave her head at the beginning of the pandemic?
  • How can you really make a difference in people’s lives regardless of whether or not you work in the non-profit sector?
Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
  • Linkedin – for marketing and leadership content
  • Twitter – for the occasional political outburst
  • Diamond + Branch – for information about consulting services
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SEASON 3, EPISODE #29

ENTREPRENEURIAL FAILURE: NO WORSE THAN SKINNED KNEES

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Through founding Banister Advisors, Vanessa Laughlin’s passion for client services has met the opportunity to ease the emotional and logistical burdens that individuals and families confront in the face of critical circumstances across their lifespan. Vanessa and I talk about how her work at Banister relieves the family navigator, how being a self-described “stealth person of color” puts her in unexpected situations and conversations, and why “you can’t fire an entrepreneur” because they keep coming back.

For all things, Female Firebrands, visit the website here – where you can buy the book or download free checklists to put what you learned into action.

Share your success stories and questions about being a woman in the workplace in our Google Form. Mikaela may use your stories or answer your questions in the final episode of this season!

Highlights:

  • The role of the “family navigator” often falls on women following a family crisis. Why is this, and what role does Vanessa’s business play in helping to shoulder that burden?
  • What is unique about Vanessa’s entrepreneurial journey compared to other startups in the Seattle area?
  • Vanessa is self-described as a “neurodiverse and multi-ethnic founder.” How have these attributes informed her lens in life and as an entrepreneur?
  • Vanessa refers to her mixed ethnic backgrounds as similar to “fitting into many rooms, but also none.” How does this play out in corporate settings, and what are the impacts?
  • How did a diagnosis of ADHD as an adult help Vanessa navigate and make sense of some of the challenges she faced and plan for her future?
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SEASON 3, EPISODE #28

WOMEN, SPORTS LEADERSHIP, & SOCIAL JUSTICE

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Alisha Valavanis is the CEO and General Manager of the four-time WNBA Champion Seattle Storm. She is passionate about the dynamics and culture of high performing teams, and committed to leveraging the intersection of business, sport, and community as a space for social change. Alisha and I talk about strengths women bring to leadership both on the court and in the office, why leaders and organizations must take a stand on social justice issues, and how her mission, vision, and values serve as her guide.

Highlights:
  • What are some of the unique strengths that women bring to leadership both on and off the court?
  • What events and experiences have shaped Alisha’s leadership style?
  • 2020 was the first year that the Seattle Storm endorsed a politician. Why now?
  • Many leaders and organizations are afraid of alienating fans, customers, or consumers if they decide to take a political stance. What does Alisha have to say to these folks?
  • According to Alisha, what is possible today that wouldn’t have been on our radar 12 months ago
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SEASON 3, EPISODE #27

INTENTIONAL MENTORSHIP WITH DAVE GARTENBERG

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As Chief HR Officer, Dave Gartenberg was responsible for the strategic direction of all aspects of Avanade’s people, organization and culture. With 37,000+ professionals across the globe, Avanade brings together the world’s largest community of experts on Microsoft based solutions. Dave and I talk about why he makes time to mentor 3 to 5 people every week and dive into what mentorship means as well as how to find and secure a mentor. Dave was my first ever official mentor and I still consider him one today.

Highlights:
  • What pushed Dave to become a mentor early in his career?
  • Did he have a goal to mentor women, or did that happen naturally?
  • Many professional women seek out mentors. How would he advise they go about this?
  • What advice would Dave give to men who want to be better allies and advocates but don’t know whether or how to take part in conversations that include inclusion at work?
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SEASON 3, EPISODE #26

AFTER/DURING THE ELECTION... WITH ERIN JONES

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Today’s podcast episode is part two of our election series and was recorded on Thursday, November 5th. In this episode, Erin Jones and I talk about what the results of the presidential election say about the ideological landscape of the United States, how to move forward in a nation that’s divided, ways to take care of yourself as the uncertainty continues, and the importance of continued action and activism, no matter who gets elected.

Highlights:
  • Regardless of the president elect, what do the votes say about the state of America?
  • How are Erin’s children responding to the results, and what are the conversations like in their household this week?
  • How would an advocate move forward in a nation that is divided?
  • What is Erin’s actionable self-care advice as we close out this election season and 2020 and move into the new year?

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SEASON 3, EPISODE #25

BEFORE THE ELECTION... WITH ERIN JONES

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Erin Jones has been involved with schools for the past twenty six years. She received recognition at the White House in March of 2013 as a champion of change. She left her job to run as a candidate for state superintendent and was the first Black woman to run for any state office in Washington state. Today, Erin and I talk about the importance of voting, why it’s important to vote down ballot, the potential for unrest following the election, and why Erin isn’t planning to jog the day after the election.

Highlights:
  • Why does it actually matter so much that we vote, especially this year?
  • Aside from the presidential race, what is important about taking the time to vote down ballot?
  • What are some unintended consequences of overlooking positions aside from the presidential nomination?
  • What are the worst case scenarios of the 2020 election fallout?
  • How is voter suppression manifesting in 2020, and what can we do?
  • What is Erin’s personal plan for election day?
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SEASON 3, EPISODE #24

CULTIVATING FOCUS, CLARITY, AND KINDNESS

Ep. 24 Chelsea Glaser

Chelsea Glaser is an intuitive entrepreneur and brand strategist who enthusiastically embraces the challenges of running two businesses at once. It’s Chelsea’s mission to support ambitious women in pursuit of their goals and help them embrace their authentic selves every step of the way. Chelsea and I talked about making entrepreneurship more accessible by not over-glamorizing it, how authentic brands are always rooted in company values, and the importance of cultivating a daily practice.

Highlights:
  • What is entrepreneurship really like and how can we make it accessible to everyone?
  • How does a brand become and stay authentic as it scales, and how can consumers spot an authentic brand?
  • Is entrepreneurship as glamorous on the inside as it seems from the outside?
  • What are some of the barriers to entry when creating your own brand and business?
  • How does Chelsea define a wellness practice, and why is it so important?
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SEASON 3, EPISODE #23

WOMEN IN THEIR 50S: THE VIBRANT YEARS

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Jill Angelo is the CEO and Founder of Gennev, a first-of-its-kind online clinic and community for women in menopause. Gennev specializes in menopause, gynecology and primary care telemedicine through their team of OB/GYN and primary care practitioners. Jill talks about why she considers the 50s to be women’s most vibrant years, what it’s like to pitch a femme tech company to both male and female investors, and how she’s living into the Most Effective Female CEO award she received from Inc.com.

Highlights:
  • How did Jill get involved with and interested in the topic of women’s health and menopause, even though the latter tends to be a taboo subject?
  • How has the conversation around menopause changed over the last decade?
  • Why does Jill call women’s 50s their “vibrant years,” and how can women in their 50s embrace that time of life?
  • What can women in their 50s learn from the pandemic?
  • How does imposter syndrome show up in Jill’s life, especially after receiving the Most Effective Women’s CEO award from Inc.com?
  • What are three specific things women in their 30s and 40s can start doing to set them up well for their next stage of life?

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SEASON 3, EPISODE #22

REDEFINING HUSTLE TO INCLUDE SELF COMPASSION

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Leang Chung is the founder and CEO of Pelora Stack. After a decade of dreaming about building her own company, she finally made the courageous leap from corporate grind to entrepreneurial life. She learned that shedding many of her long held corporate beliefs was the only way to succeed in this career pivot. Leang talks about playing it safe versus pursuing your professional dreams, balancing ambiguity and perfectionism at work and why self compassion is better than hustling when you’re building a company.

Highlights:
  • What are the differences between entrepreneurial and corporate risk?
  • How do emotions play into the natural process of entrepreneurship?
  • Leang has dealt with imposter syndrome for many  years. Where did it start?
  • “Hustle culture” is the glorified path to success, but is it toxic?
  • What are specific ways that Leang is redefining success during the pandemic, and how can we learn from her?
  • There are times that we should listen to our gut, there are times that we should ignore our gut, and there are times when we should seek out more information. How do you know which is which? And when do we know when to listen?
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SEASON 3, EPISODE #21

HOW TO DROP THE BALL WITHOUT BREAKING ANYTHING AT ALL

Ep. 21 Tiffany Dufu

Tiffany Dufu is the Founder and CEO of The Cru and author of the bestselling book Drop the Ball: Achieving More by Doing Less. Tiffany has raised nearly 20 million dollars toward the cause of women and girls. We talked about how to recognize if you have “home control disease” and how to overcome it, why perfectionism makes delegation nearly impossible, how The Cru helps women accelerate their personal and professional growth, and her advice for the rising generation of women professionals.

Highlights:
  • How did Tiffany reappropriate the term “Drop the ball?”
  • What is HCD (Home Control Disease) and what can we do about it?
  • What are some tools and techniques for women to let go of the societal pressures they feel in both their personal and professional lives?
  • Why is it important to intentionally curate unique “job descriptions” for all of the roles we inhabit?
  • “By taking care of everything yourself you prevent other people from growing.” What does this mean?
  • Learn more about The Cru and how it’s helping women advance their professional and personal goals through community and accountability.
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SEASON 3, EPISODE #20

TRANSGENDER ATHLETE ON AUTHENTICITY AND ALLYSHIP

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Schuyler Bailar is the first transgender athlete to compete in any sport on an NCAA D1 men’s team. His story has appeared everywhere, from 60 Minutes to The Ellen Show. We talk about Harvard’s great response of “We’re not experts, but we’ll figure this out,” the importance of affirmation and never calling identity a phase, how even intersectionality can’t possibly account for all of a person’s identities, and the importance of advocates and allies taking care of themselves so they can take care of others.

Highlights:
  • How did Schuyler’s university show inclusivity and support during his transition, and how can others follow suit?
  • What reception advice would Schuyler give to folks when someone comes out to them as queer?
  • For folks who fear making mistakes or “saying the wrong thing,” what is a good go-to phrase?
  • What is on Schuyler’s “never say” list?
  • What is “compassionate correction” and how can we leverage it?
  • Intersectionality informs how we interact with the world, how do we define it and why is it so important?
  • Advocacy and allyship are not the same. What is the difference and what advice would Schuyler give to people who want to strengthen their advocacy or allyship?

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SEASON 3, EPISODE #19

BUILD YOUR DEI MUSCLE, EVEN IF YOU’RE UNCOMFORTABLE

Ep. 19 Jennifer Brown

Jennifer Brown is an award winning entrepreneur, dynamic speaker, and DEI expert. She’s an advocate for social equality and helps businesses foster healthy, productive cultures. We talk about why, despite the data, some companies are just now playing DEI catch up, how the risk of seeing ourselves as good people leads to inaction, and the importance of educating yourself as an aspiring ally. Jennifer challenges us to get uncomfortable, knowing that it is in this discomfort that we begin to make real change.

Highlights:
  • Even though diversity, equity, and inclusion data is not new, why have so many businesses and leaders continuously chosen inaction?
  • What is the difference between younger and older generations in the workplace when it comes to expectations around diversity?
  • Why is it not enough to simply “not be racist?”
  • What is performative allyship and why is it so dangerous?
  • “Speed is one of the worst enablers of bias.” What does this mean?
  • What is included and encompassed by the phrase “do the work” for businesses?

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SEASON 3, EPISODE #18

ELEVEN YEAR OLD LEADS A DEI DISCUSSION FOR TECH WORKERS

Ep. 18 Sameeksha Singh

At 5 years old, Sameeksha Singh led a diversity conversation for her mom’s tech company (F5). She is now 11 and feels compelled to speak up for kindness, pay equity, and underestimated people including members of the LGBTQ community. Though she’s just finished elementary school, Sameeksha has already learned how to stand up against bullying and is quick to encourage others to do the same. Hearing from an 11 year old who is this passionate about equity at work and in life can give us all hope for the future.

Highlights:
  • What first inspired 5 year old Sameeksha to lead a DEI conversation at her mom’s tech company?
  • What does it mean to be an 11 year old Female Firebrand?
  • What do Mikaela, Beyoncé, Sameeksha’s mom, and Greta Thunberg all have in common?
  • If Sameeksha could teach other kids her age one thing about bullying and exclusion, what would it be?
  • How can kids of all ages speak up and have a social impact?
  • What are Sameeksha’s hopes for the future?
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SEASON 3, EPISODE #17

AVOIDING THE KOOL-AID MAN SYNDROME WITH KYLE ANGELO

Ep. 17 Kyle Angelo

Kyle Angelo is a certified and practiced leadership coach. He has built a reputation for being relationship centric, candid and compassionate. Kyle is a dependable advocate, supporting many inclusion and gender equity initiatives. When approaching a new situation, he asks two questions: What does help look like and what does help not look like? He uses a cycle of listen-reflect-act to guide his behaviors. Kyle is thoughtful, humble and continually makes sure his actions are having their intended impact.

Highlights:
  • Which two questions should an advocate always ask when entering a new situation?
  • What is the three step loop Kyle uses to guide his advocacy behaviors?
  • How do you increase your self awareness about your effectiveness as an advocate?
  • What is outsight and why is it so important?
  • What is the “Kool-Aid Man Effect” and why should it be avoided?
  • What advice would Kyle give to male advocates who want to enter inclusion and gender equity conversations but aren’t sure where to start?
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SEASON 3, EPISODE #16

YOU’RE NOT “WOKE,” YOU’RE AWAKENING WITH JULIE PHAM

Ep. 16 Julie Pham

Julie Pham is a Cambridge trained historian, Forbes blogger, venture philanthropist and marketing professional. She is a well known speaker, writer and influencer in business communities. We talk about why there’s really no such thing as being “woke,” how the fear of seeming “un-woke” can lead to silencing ourselves, the importance of curiosity and dialog in the face of ignorance. Julie has the courage to explore complex issues of diversity and inclusion even where there’s no clear answer.

Highlights:
  • Is there really such a thing as being “woke?”
  • In fear of appearing “unwoke” we sometimes don’t say anything at all, so how do we step into a space of vulnerability?
  • Are racial privilege acknowledgements from white people at the beginning of conversations helpful?
  • How do we act from a place of curiosity rather than defensiveness when correcting someone’s actions or words?
  • A curiosity mindset takes a lot less effort than an educating mindset… What is the difference?
  • 70% of King County voted democratic in the 2016 election, but how progressive are we really?
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